Russ Allbery schreef op 24-09-2016 2:48:
The Wanderer <wanderer@fastmail.fm> writes:While I see the perspective which leads you to that statement, I don't think that's strictly correct.The way I usually put it is that "if you expect to be excused because ofit, it's an excuse".Some excuses are valid, mind. That doesn't mean they aren't excuses.I guess I'm finding it quite remarkable how much concerted effort seems tobe going into try to make me feel ashamed of my behavior in some way, which is how I read "feel like excuses."
Not ashamed, just bad ;-). And it's not about you if you are the one leading the way forward ;-).