Re: Outrageous Xenophobia. Was: Outrageous sexism. Was: Re: Mail client, threads, etc...

[Zenaan Harkness <zen@freedbms.net>]

On 11/27/12, Ralf Mardorf <ralf.mardorf@rocketmail.com> wrote:

> Take a look what mails are from me and what mails are from others and
> take care about the fact that I was silent, I only replied when it
> became to insane.
>
> Discredit, defamation, lies!
>
> In the archive it's easy to see what mails, what words are from me and
> what are the mails from other people. You can't see the mails of cowards
> who wrote off-list.

Don't worry Ralf, it is ok; as I see it, those who cannot come to
sanity, in face of apology, in face of clarification, or who cannot
understand how many ">" are in email, then you do not need to worry
about them.

Let them live in their confusion or whatever you want to call it that they be.

It is ok for you to be defensive. But it is perhaps not optimal for
you to be defensive. Especially when you make mistake of
interpretation or assumption, eg that Nazi joke is somehow direct
comparison to you/ your joke/ whatever.

The things that matter, matter to those who matter.
The rest live in confusion or misunderstanding; let them be there, is
least effort; may be a bit of gentle clarification or simple apology,
but why spend more?

Your intent is seen by those who can read. That is all that matters.

Peace
Zenaan