The package fuse3 is available since awhile in sid/buster.
Their users however are still using old fuse (v2), e.g. sshfs-fuse.
fuse3 is not co-installable with fuse, but a patch is available.
So is there a chance this get fixed and sshfs-fuse and other package can be updated to use fuse3 for buster?
Thanks to everyone involved.