Re: dame_gender
On 4 Apr 2020, at 23:27, Jessica Clarke <jrtc27@debian.org> wrote:
> On 4 Apr 2020, at 23:16, Elana Hashman <ehashman@debian.org> wrote:
>>
>>> El sáb., 4 abr. 2020 a las 23:53, Jessica Clarke (<jrtc27@debian.org>) escribió:
>>>>
>>>> You can raise your voice and disagree wholeheartedly whilst still being polite.
>>>> Even if someone is a huge bigot that doesn't give you free rein to be rude, as
>>>> tempting and justifiable as it *feels*.
>>
>> This is tone policing, and I would like to request that members on the
>> list stop engaging in it: http://www.robot-hugs.com/2016/01/tone-policing/
>
> No, it's not. Tone policing is about requiring you to remain calm. All we are
> trying to say (and what the Code of Conduct that you are required to follow
> says) is that you must be respectful towards people. Moreover, Miry was *not*
> saying that the line *had* been crossed, she said that we're getting "quite
> close". Emotion is allowed. Just don't attack people, as per the CoC. Besides,
> being trans, I am not speaking from a position of privilege in this particular
> context, not that I think it even matters here.
And in fact, quoting the text at the bottom of your comic:
> There is a difference between ‘that’s a shitty argument’ and ‘you’re a shitty person’.
I saw Miry as trying to ensure it doesn't devolve into the latter.
Jess
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