This might be one of those scenarios where I have not
found the best search terms for google.
I'm running XFCE and Konsole for terminal.
When I ssh into a system, the title for the Konsole
updates to the hostname of the remote system.
Even works for Solaris, so this is good.
The problem is with finding terminals. I often have over 60
open at once. The task bar or whatever it is called
in XFCE stacks the open Konsoles, but the listing
of them is probably by the order of which they were opened.
one system to another.