On Sun, 2023-11-26 at 20:54 -0500, Karen Lewellen wrote: > Your surprise is surprising given you are living no one's life but your > own. > as they say walk a mile in another person's shoes before you decide you > know what solutions are possible for them. In that case, I suggest noone try to give any advice. Why do you even ask. You need to figure it out all by yourself because nobody is living your life but you.