On Mon, Oct 19, 2020 at 11:50:36AM +0000, Long Wind wrote: > > On Sunday, October 18, 2020, 8:12:54 AM EDT, <tomas@tuxteam.de> wrote: > In general, this is a good strategy. Still, there are people > around who feel hurt by things and are too shy to speak up; > it's thinking of those that I do sometimes. > > > i'm able to keep quiet, because i remind myself that others' word isn't necessarily truth. not responding doesn't necessarily mean tacitly admitting i'm wrong. it's not easy to control one's feeling, but my experience has taught me that it's often more difficult to change others' behavior. This is wise. As I said, I totally respect your position. I tried to explain how I try to do things, but I was in no way proposing that you do the same. This would be arrogant :-) > in your word i'm shy, actully i'm in poor health, i have to save energy, getting angry isn't good to health. Sorry if I came across that way. I wasn't questioning your motives at all: I'm not entitled to that. As to your health, I wish you strength to cope with that. And good friends. Cheers - t
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