exim doing wierd stuff

[Jay Kelly <neutec@pacbell.net>]

Hello Group,
I have been trying to get my potato box to run exim and have been running
into some errors.

When I do "ps wwaxl|grep exim" I get:
 "Warning: /System.map has incorrect kernel version.
000	0	760	225	10	0	1108	400	12dbbb1 s	tty1   0:00 grep exim"
 Then I try "grep exim /etc/inetd.conf" and I get:
"smtp	stream  tcp		nowait   maikl	/usr/sbin/exim exim -bs"
 next I tried pswwaxl|grep inetd" and the output it:
"Warning: /System.map has an incor4rect kernel version.
140   0   219    1   0  0  2048   908  1312a4 S   ?    0:00 /usr/sbin/x
000   0   763   225  10 0  1108   400  12dbb1 S   tty1 0:00 grep inetd "
last i did was ls -l /etc/rc2.d|grep exim" with the output of:
"lrwxrwxrwx   1 root    root		14 jun 4 15:52 S20exim -> ../inet.d/exim

I running xinetd and have configured xinetd.conf to look like:

service smtp
{
	socket_type		= stream
	protocol		= tcp
	wait			= no
	user			= root
	server		= usr/sbin/exim -bs
}

but when I try a telnet localhost I get
connection refused.
so what am I missing here???
thanks