ethernet and wireless network settings on Asus A8V

[Craig Hagerman <craighagerman@gmail.com>]

I recently got the wireless card working on my Asus A8V motherboard.
(Using the 64 bit rt2500 driver). So now I have two NICS - ethernet
(eth0) and the wireless (ra0). How do I tell which one is being used
for what? Both are connecting to a YahooBB (ISP) modem / router (56MB
ADSL) which gives them separate external IP addresses. I want to use
the ethernet to server web pages, webdav folders and for general web
surfing and downloading.   I want to keep the wireless local and use
it only to ssh in from my laptop when I am at home. (Laptop of course
uses the same wireless network at home.)

Can anyone tell me how to set this up? Right now I think that ALL of
the action is happening on ra0 and eth0 is idle. How do I get it to
default to eth0?

After I get this sorted out I may want to set up the computer as a
wireless access point. Can anyone point me in the right direction for
how to set this up?

Thanks,

Craig